Month: June 2019

Patriarchy and Women in the Workplace

While we have come far in the last 50 years … tremendous technological growth, global diversity awareness, economic growth for 2nd and 3rd world nations … the American workplace still remains a bastion of the old patriarchal values. And nowhere is this more evident than in the political arena. Patriarchy is not about gender. It is about a set of beliefs, attitudes, and practices that affect both men and women. It is about the masculine principle gone rogue. In the political and corporate world, the interactions remain aggressively power seeking, defensive, hierarchical, homophobic, competitive, and emotionally disconnected from people… Read more »


The Sacred Masculine Energy is the vertical axis … the sun and sky, thunderclouds, lightning. It is active, presence, direct, light, initiating, boundaried, separateness, the sword, the cock. The Sacred Feminine Energy is the horizontal axis … Mother Earth, flora, fauna, oceans,                                                                                      It is indirect, connective, fluid, open, dark. It is water, food, flowers, unifying, the grail,… Read more »

Change: Who Me?

It is a cosmic law that the only constant is change.  We see changes in everything everyday, we marvel at the way life continually unfolds its splendor and horror.  Order births chaos births order, ad infinitum.  We see ourselves change over time … bodies, feelings, attitudes, beliefs, political opinions, economic situations, relationships.  Time changes us … child, teen, young adult, middle age, elder, death.  Each is a passage, each changes us whether we like it or not.  Changes are multidimensional … effecting us in body, mind, spirit … across time. So why, when we see ourselves acting in ways… Read more »

Mentorship for Young Men

Hey Man … are you still trying to figure out who you are, and what you’re doing here? Do the traditional markers of male success leave you feeling not good enough, hungry, and wanting? Do you wake in the middle of the night with a deep ache in your chest? Welcome to the inner life of ‘middle age’ men … late 20’s, 30’s, early 40’s. There is nothing wrong with you, man, it’s just that no one has ever talked to you about these feelings or this angst. Most of us grow up in this ManBox, full of shit and false promises.… Read more »

The Deep Process

This past Saturday, four courageous men joined me online for a Virtual Day of Deep Process. I was uncertain this first time, yet having successfully deep processed with a number of individual clients over the years, I intuitively felt that my/our good intentions would handle whatever logistical and/or technological disturbances that might arise. Indeed, it was a powerful experience. Today, I write this to men in the work, and to the work in men … Thank you so much for your courage in sharing all of you with me. I have often imagined that you are in this much… Read more »