Realizing your SOUL’S unfinished business … in THIS marriage


Your relationship is not delivering what you want, need or expected. You want out but at the same time you can’t imagine life without your mate. It is the deep unconscious (soul) that attracts you to one another, and until you discover what and why that is, you will suffer greatly.

Your relationship is not what you think it is.
You are drawn together for one profound reason:
to heal your soul’s unfinished business.

Taking a deeper look at the dynamics of your marriage requires a lion-hearted courage from both of you. To walk the path of this self-discovery means giving up the need to be right, and instead embracing the desire to be close. Your greatest joy and greatest agony comes through your most intimate relationships. To be true to yourself, and to be good to the other … is the ultimate paradox.

You will have the opportunity to share yourself
your pain, your frustration, your joy & sorrow, your confusion…
with someone who knows, understands, and lives this pathway.


  • Emotional literacy (to know what you feel)
  • Body-centered (whole person) awareness
  • The parts of you that you know (your light) and the parts of you that you do not know (your shadows)
  • Childhood conditioning: the initial template of love
  • How this software plays out in relationships
  • The wounding process: why it is necessary and what to do with it
  • Projections: what are they, where do they come from
  • New ways to speak to your partner


  • Realize that you are both suffering
  • Making it safe to tell the truth
  • Listening and speaking (2 ears and 1 mouth)
  • Having a voice … from your truth, clarity, & heart
  • The difference between power vs force
  • The principles of vulnerability & accountability
  • The dance of the Masculine & Feminine


  • Building a New Marriage …with love, honesty, hope
  • Reduced stress from honest emotional release (in the body)
  • Feeling heard & understood & not alone
  • New Communication skills: fiercely honest and tenderly vulnerable
  • Deep self-learning (ah-ha’s) for each & together
  • Alignment of head/heart/gut/sex
  • Congruent thought/feeling/word/action
  • Love & Truth is ALL


  • The Earth is alive with transformational energy.
  • The old institution of marriage no longer serves.
  • Change is inevitable.
  • Holding onto pain damages the body, soul, spirit.
  • Sovereign & Together: A New Dance
  • Your partner (and your children) need your Love & Truth.
  • Your Sacred Marriage is important & worth this investment.


Dene Maria Sebastiana … leads you within.

He is a wise elder, and well-seasoned leader of transformational work.

He is able to reconnect you … to the power of Soul, Spirit, & Wholeness in your life.

My Mission is …

to bring an end to patriarchy & misogyny … in my time and for my lineage.


  • I have great Love, Compassion, and dedication to Truth.
  • I live these Sacred Principles in my daily life.
  • I live a Sacred Marriage with My Beloved.
  • I have 44 years in this Work.
  • I have been leading healing circles for 30 years
  • I am a husband, father, leader, citizen, and I live a very full life.
  • I am Accountable, I have Integrity, I work hard for my clients.
  • I have dedicated my Life’s Purpose to this healing process.
  • I am balanced in the Masculine & Feminine.
  • I am very good at what I do, and I am so very human.


“Dene provides a safe and open environment for the often painful work of getting to the root of relationship-threatening dynamics. Our work with Dene has produced great shifts in behavior and uncovering deep truths about ourselves and our relationship. The sessions are never clinical, but empathetic and compassionate. I recommend Sun Coaching to anyone wanting to move beyond their own limitations and false beliefs, and entrenched blocks in their intimate relationships.”

“Last weekend, I witnessed a man filled with unconditional love for women. I marveled at your passion, conviction, and willingness to fully offer yourself up to a group of women who needed your wisdom, tenderness, and ultimately your strength. I was sustained in a way I could not have anticipated by the way you guided us and then walked with us into the fire of truth. You are a man magnificently balanced in your masculine and feminine energies, full of grace, willing to put yourself on the razor’s edge. I am lifted up and humbled by the knowledge that my path to authentic womanhood was to be revealed to me by a man. Men and women healing and evolving together –hope is alive. Thank you Dene.”


“Dene is a world class facilitator and brilliant coordinator of group dynamics. He has the ability to go deep with the individual and to similarly invite the collective, a rare combination of talents. Dene’s strongest gift is his compassion: a poignant ability to see with deep feeling and to feel with great vision. He has a perceptive, laser–like capacity to see to the heart of the issue, and not get lost in peripheral maze of details. He is able to stay with what is essential, to keep bringing things back to where the core issues are. Therefore, he is effective and efficient in using his and his clients’ time and energy.”

“Through knowing himself, Dene is open to the full range of human experience, and thus capable of deep compassion. Both as teacher and healer, Dene is gifted and exceedingly capable. Unafraid, but not without the cautions born of wisdom, he sees what is needed and moves into the fire in search of healing solutions.”


Spirit and Soul are alive in you, and in your marriage. In their continuous movement to connect you both to the heavens and the earth, they are relentless in their endeavors to wake you both up. No sentimentality for your comfort, nor even concern for your mortal life, they give you and your partner endless opportunities to grow … both up into spirit and down into soul … for each separately and together.

If you heed the call, blessings abound. If you refuse again, the same pain and suffering will continue. End your suffering: give up the need to be right and value the deep desire to be close. For whatever reason, I have entered into your constellation.

Nothing is by accident. Yet the choice remains uniquely yours.

Come … take a deep dive, one that will initially frighten you,

but one that will deliver you from the banality of an un-lived life.

The life you are here to save is your own, and each other.

Come, join me on this adventure, learn about yourself in this & ALL your relationships.

Realize the truth of WHO YOU REALLY ARE … ALONE & TOGETHER.

The Time is NOW, the Place is HERE. ARE YOU READY?


Location:                        Online Video Conferencing

Frequency:                     4 couples max

Time:                               Sat or Sun (tbd) – 9 am – 5 pm

Price:                               $425 per couple

Payment:                         Visa, MC, Paypal